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Q & A - Adding A Dog To Existing Family
by: Brenda, Washington
  Q: We are considering adding another to our family. We already have Evo, and I am building a special bond with “Jake” at the Humane Society where I volunteer. I feel my first commitment is to Evo, and would like to ask Evo if Jake could happily become part of our family.
A: Introducing a new dog to your home brings up some very important factors. While it’s exciting to bring a new animal companion into our home, the existing animals may not like the idea of a ‘new addition’. Some animals prefer to be the only dog. Each animal is different. When I checked in with Evo and asked him how he feels about Jake coming to live with all of you, Evo was quite honest and open with me and said that as long as it doesn't take you or the time you spend with him away, that he is ok with it. Evo was very clear on telling me that he is the top dog and this is his home, his yard and his family and that as long as Jake doesn't challenge that, things will be ok.
This is why it will be important for you to show Evo and Jake that you are in charge. The most important factor to remember is that your nervousness or anxiety will affect how Evo and Jake react to each other. They can pick up on your emotions and feelings very easily. Be confident in your own mind that Jake will fit nicely into your family setting. Imagine Evo and Jake getting along and becoming pack-members. You should also be the ‘Top Dog’ and set the rules from the beginning. Then stick to them! Always be their pack leader. This can be done very effectively with your attitude and energy. Dogs communicate with their body language and eye contact. Taking a leadership role with your head up, shoulders back and a calm, assertive energy will let them know you mean business. With you in charge, the transition should be smooth.
I also checked in with Jake and he told me that he is ok with the move just that he has a few 'stubborn spots' in his personality that need to be kept in check. He also said that he needs a lot of exercise and challenges and doesn't want to be idle...he says he needs lots to do mom, lots to do! I also recommend walking both of the dogs together on a regular basis. This helps build mutual respect and is great exercise for all of you! Thank you Brenda for adopting Jake and volunteering at the humane society, you set a great example for the rest of us!
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